Over the last couple of weeks I've been working through what I've found to be a must-read book by Danielle Allen, called Talking to Strangers: Anxieties of Citizenship since Brown v. Board of Education. Allen’s key argument is that modern democracies have been founded on a notion of unity as the imaginary touchstone for the existence of the will of the people.
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For the past three weeks, ever since the release of my book, All Who Go Do Not Return, I have been getting this question at least once a day: “Where is your anger?”
In every performance evaluation I have ever received, I have been told by a well-meaning supervisor: “If you are stressed out, you need to practice saying no.” And every time, this makes me crazy. As a young female professional in a “Lean In” world, saying no seems antithetical to the dream of having it all, or at least having what will make me happy. Saying no also means I will miss out on some opportunities and that people may be disappointed or angry with me. In short, saying no feels impossible. I know I’m not alone in this.
These past few weeks I have been conscious of practicing the Art of Saying No a lot. Let me be clear: it is definitely practice, because I’m nowhere near perfect. Nevertheless, it is also an art, and as such requires attention to detail and style as well as substance.
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